People often wonder what black-tie means.
Before choosing what to wear, take a few things into account:
1. Where is the event?
2. How dressy is the venue?
3. What will you feel comfortable wearing?
4. Who is throwing the party?
Short dresses and knee-length dresses are more accepted than they used to be.
However, when shopping for the dress I would wear to the Holy Name Founder’s Ball at MoMA in the city this past Saturday night, I knew right away that I would wear a “traditional” full-length dress.
I found my dress for only $179 by accident at Urban Outfitters in Westfield Garden State Plaza. Well, to be fair, my sister spotted it first. Instantly I knew it was “the one.” I love long-sleeves in the fall and winter for two reasons: weather appropriate and classically sexy. Ladies, remember, you do not have to show a lot of skin to be sexy.
The high-waisted 1950′s inspired pleated skirt reminds me of a dress straight out of my grandmother’s closet and the “V” in the back showed just enough skin.
Now, here comes the big question….to wear a bra or not to wear a bra? I could’ve easily worn a low back bra that wouldn’t have shown or no bra at all, but, I decided to pull a Carrie Bradshaw and show a hint of my black bra off. There is a correct way to show your bra if the outfit allows, and there are many incorrect ways.
I accessorized with a pair of vintage looking earrings from the J.Crew Outlet store in Bergen Town Center, a Clara Kasavina ring, two gold bands (they were my great grandmother’s) and two evil eye bracelets (I always wear at least one). One of the bracelets is from Deseos Boutique in Hillsdale, the other is from Portage and The Jewelry Box in Englewood. And my Elaine Turner zig-zag glitter clutch is from BB Clover in Ho-Ho-Kus. How major is it??? I forgot the graphite sparkly belt from Urban Outfitters that I bought specifically for this dress at my house, so I improvised and braided two American Apparel belts I had at my parents house together. They added a very Grecian feeling to the dress.
What you wear over your dress is just as important, if not, more important than your dress, because that’s what everyone sees first. I tried on a faux-fur checkered cropped jacket from Forever 21 that I have, but ultimately decided on a vintage sequin jacket with fur trim that was my grandmothers. This choice was more elegant and classic, as opposed to the other, which was more trendy. My sky-high heels are Miu Miu from Neiman Marcus.
Have fun when getting black-tie ready, but always keep at least one classic element to your look and answer the questions above for guidance on finding the perfect dress.
Look great. Feel great.
HZ




